First of all, I’d like to state that I hate the term “The One”, but any which way you look at it, we are always searching for him. After dating so many losers and nobodies, when a decent guy appears, you either jump on him like he’s the last crumb during a famine or you brush him off like he is just an optical illusion. While, there isn’t a standard formula for the perfect guy, there are some sure fire signs you just may have found that special someone.
Communication is On Point
Men and women may live on two different planets, but can always meet eye to eye as long as they can communicate, effectively. I personally don’t need a man to hang on my every word and listen to my rambling, but when I have an issue, then that’s when I need to be heard.
You Guys Plan Your Future Together
Whether he is making plans for your date next week or making plans to be rocking in the chair next to you when you grow old, if he puts you, him, and tomorrow in the same sentence, well that says a lot. As women we jump life years ahead when including our mates in our futures, so its nice to know he is right behind you.
Love-making is Amazing
What’s better than having great sex? Well, having great sex with someone you love and adore. Emotions take sex to another level that lust can not attain because of the intimacy you guys share in and out of the bed. If you think you catch feelings when you don’t necessarily like a guy, imagine how much more your affected with a man you actually have feelings for.
Friends Stamp of Approval
Sure, having your parents approval is important, but who knows you better than your friends? They know what would be good for you, and more importantly what’s bad for you. Therefore, when you bring your friends around your man and they actually get along (but not too well, but I‘ll save that for another topic) it solidifies your relationship a bit more.
Gosh, darn it, you really trust this guy. For all the women who are bitter towards men and think all men cheat, when you actually date a guy and don’t think twice about what he be doing when he isn’t around you, then you know it’s real. Trust is so important because that helps bring you to a higher, more secure part of your relationship. While, you can’t put too much trust in anyone, when you give him the benefit of the doubt, it’s a great sign that you are trying and he may be the one for you (at least for now, but I digress.)